Dear Jim,
I'm a young lady who fantasizes
"chick flick" leading men. Recently, I watched "My Big Fat Greek
Wedding" and find myself falling in love with John Corbett's character Ian
Miller.
I'm an avid fan of romantic
movies. When I watch chick flick movies, I can't stop myself to like those fictional
male characters. Lately, I realize that all my standards of finding a right guy
are based on these "chick flick" loveable guys.
At my age of 20, I'm NBSB (No
boyfriend since birth). I hope that I'll find a guy similar to those guys in
romantic movies. So far, I couldn't find a guy like them. What should I do, Jim?
Jerilee
Dear Jerilee,
Thank you for sending an e-mail. We
all have this notion to adapt the principles we watch in movies.
It's good to be entertained with these kinds
of films BUT you must consider there are things happen only in movies not in
real life. "Chick flick" guys are created by artistic screenwriters.
Jerilee, you're still young. There
are great things in store for you. Learn to participate in healthy activities
that will develop your personality. If you're still studying, join groups that
can hone your potential.
In the meantime, try to lessen watching
romantic movies. Do not isolate yourself. Hence, get out of your comfort zone.
We don't know maybe your forever is just around the corner.
Jim
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